Tuesday, September 28, 2010

True 1Malaysia exists in Sabah

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/9/28/focus/7111786&sec=focus

 

Tuesday September 28, 2010

True 1Malaysia exists in Sabah


HOW many Malaysians have been to Sabah?

I have been to several cities like Kota Kinabalu, Sandakan, Tawau and several other small towns several times and I always get the same feeling: people there are seriously united.

They communicate with each other in Bahasa Malaysia, with a heavy accent ending with a “bah”.

Even though they are Malays, Chinese, Indians, Kadazans or others, they speak similarly.

To those who have never set foot there, I suggest you plan a holiday there instead of to other countries and I can assure you it will be worthwhile.

Born in Penang, later educated in Kuala Lumpur and working in Johor Baru, I got used to the fact that if I wanted food, I will go to a “Mamak” restaurant, Malay restaurant or any fast food outlet.

Chinese or Indian restaurants won’t cross my mind as the food there is not “halal”.

I could remember the very first time I went to Sabah, it was time for breakfast and my friend, a Sabahan and also a Muslim, brought me to this typical Chinese looking restaurant which we normally see in the peninsula.

Over here, it is obvious that I, as a Muslim, won’t be able to eat the food there because of the “halal” factor.

But to my surprise, the patrons there in that restaurant were mostly Muslims. The food served was normal “nasi lemak”.

I was quite skeptical at first and when I tried to get an assurance from the owner himself, he proudly said: “We Sabahans understand each other well.”

Thinking that the morning scene in the Chinese restaurant was a coincidence, I suggested to have lunch in another Chinese restaurant.

True enough, the scenario was the same: most of the patrons were Muslims.

At night, it was time for a “feel” of the night life in Tawau and we went to a popular “dangdut” outlet.

Again, I was surprised to see many Chinese there.

In Peninsular Malaysia, “dangdut” outlets are normally filled with Malays.

When it comes to food, Sabahans have shown us the true meaning of unity in terms of a simple meal.

Whether it is breakfast, lunch, dinner or even supper, they are united as a people and they eat at a same table.

We sometimes just forget the basics of being a truly united nation.

It is so easy to slur another person, another religion or another race on various websites these days, but is this what we want to do as a responsible citizen?

I feel the way to understand 1Malaysia is by starting to look at how Sabahans live.

HALIM CHEW, 
Kajang.

Sunday, September 19, 2010

tired.

i'm tired.

tired of all these lies.

tired of you for not being able to make up your fucking mind.

tired because you keep changing plans.

tired that you think you're perfect.

tired that you treat others better than your own family.

tired of the hypocrisy.

tired of every single thing that comes out of your mouth.

tired of hoping.

tired of praying.

tired of waiting.

open the windows, look outside, smell the air, enjoy the view. open the door, walk outside, touch the grass. see how the outside world works. the world does not revolve around you and your bunch pf psycho 'friends' you know.

i'm just going to lay down everything and whatever happens, happens. so be it. i cannot make everyone happy at the same time.

it's tiring.

Thursday, September 16, 2010

something to ponder / fight upon.

Tuesday September 14, 2010

Time to address 47 years of neglect

CERITALAH By KARIM RASLAN
newsdesk@thestar.com.my


It will take more than just granting holidays or constant reassurances of goodwill. Sabah and Sarawak deserve their share of the nation’s wealth and attention. Furthermore, the respective points of the two agreement have to be adhered to.

I WAS born on Aug 2, 1963 in a country called the Federation of Malaya. Six weeks later, on Sept 16, the Federation along with Sabah, Sarawak and Singapore joined to form Malaysia.

A Malayan at birth, I then became a Malaysian.

The date of Sept 16, 1963 marked a significant transition. Indeed, there are a number of crucial differences between “Malaya” and “Malaysia”.

While we often talk about the “social contract”– the unwritten agreement negotiated by our leaders during the Independence era – we should also remember the terms upon which Sabah and Sarawak joined with us to form Malaysia.

Basically, these states (along with Singapore) were persuaded to join Malaysia because of these promises.

Each were allocated specific rights and duties as in the 20- and 18-point agreements that Malaya signed with Sabah and Sarawak respectively.

Sarawak and Sabah theoretically enjoyed greater rights than the existing states of the Federation, like the states of Johor or Pahang.

Moreover, these “points” were not trivial: there was to be no official religion in either state and English was to be Sabah’s official language indefinitely.

Other clauses also promised local control over immigration, finance, education, land and natural resources.

Furthermore, bumiputras in these two states were to enjoy the same special rights as peninsular Malays.

Many East Malaysians therefore thought that they were coming together to form a whole new country. Fast forward to 2010, however, these facts appeared to have been forgotten.

Neither the 20 nor 18 points have been fully honoured, arguably they have been undermined by successive federal leaders.

Indeed, their existence has been relegated to little more than mere historic footnotes.

To make matters worse, we are regularly told that “Malaysia” was born on the Aug 31, 1957.

“Malaysia Day”, as a-matter-of-fact, was only declared a national holiday last year when peninsular Malaysia leaders realised the dangers of ignoring Malaysian sentiment in Sabah and Sarawak.

The sad truth is that the state of our union is imperfect and 47 years after its formation, the ideals of founding Malaysia remain elusive.

Our developmental policies and ideas of nationhood are biased towards the peninsula.

Indeed, many peninsular Malaysians are more familiar with London or Sydney than Kota Kinabalu or Kuching.

In the meantime, the aspirations of our fellow East Malaysians – whether they are bumiputras, or Chinese – have consistently been ignored.

How did this happen?

Many East Malaysians mark the beginning of their problems from the ejection of Singapore as it has weakened their negotiating positions.

Federal leaders were seen as having failed to honour the original spirit of the Malaysia Agreements.

These differences have led to a different sense of Malaysian-ness across the South China Sea.

The stated preference of many East Malaysians for Sept 16 as the “National Day” underlines these differences.

Furthermore, disputes over the rights to natural resources and native customary land, as well as religious disputes and questionable immigration policies have heightened dissatisfaction.

Even the New Economic Model’s (NEM) targets seem impossible for Sabah to achieve.

The Federal Government aims to lift our US$7,700 (RM23,876) per capita annual income to US$15,000 (RM46,512) under NEM, but Sabah’s own figure stands at only US$3,000 (RM9302) per annum.

Furthermore, the two states have also avoided peninsular Malaysia’s ugly racial polarisation.

This lack of progress on core issues has been a source of disappointment as well as frustration for East Malaysians.

Nevertheless, one can detect the winds of change blowing. Up until the 2008 general election,

Barisan Nasional (BN) was content to rule as if Sabah and Sarawak were mere appendages of Putrajaya. But now, BN is dependent on East Malaysian parliamentary seats to retain power.

Once-dubbed as BN’s “fixed deposit”, the Sibu by-election has changed all this.

Sabah and Sarawak are up for grabs and both BN and Pakatan Rakyat need to craft substantive policies for these two critical states.

Indeed, many see the upcoming Sarawak elections as a key indicator for the next polls.

The fate of Chief Minister Tan Sri Taib Mahmud as whether he goes or fights on has become a question of national importance.

If BN wants to maintain its hold on the two states, it has to start redressing the 47 years of neglect and this will take more than just granting holidays or constant reassurances of goodwill.

Sabah and Sarawak deserve their share of the nation’s wealth and attention.

Furthermore, the respective points of the two agreement have to be adhered to.

The resources of these two states must reach the ground directly. The political elites in Sarawak and Sabah have gorged themselves while the people have suffered.

In Malaysia such naked abuse of power and greed will meet with defeat sooner or later.

hari malaysia 16 september.

some interesting posts i found through Star Special - Malaysia Day

Thursday September 16, 2010

Growing up in a land where unity was at its best

By V.P. SUJATA


I GREW up in Kota Kinabalu (KK) when my family moved there from Kuala Lumpur in December 1971. I was three. We came back in 1984 after I completed my SPM examination.

I was always the only Indian girl in my class from Standard One up to Form Five at St Francis’ Convent, KK.

This was not a problem for me as I was not treated differently. There were quite a few Indian teachers at school. Even the principal was an Indian.

I had close friends who were Chinese, Kadazan, Sino-Kadazan and Malay. We still have reunions to this day.

We spoke both English and Bahasa Malaysia. In fact, most of the time it was a mix of both. Tamil was unheard of.

There were probably less than 50 Indian families in KK at that time.

There were no Tamil movies at the cinemas or on television as we had only TV1 then.

I grew up loving P. Ramlee and Nordin Ahmad movies. I still watch reruns now.

Unity was at its best. There was no segregation among races. We were one.

If a student was a favourite, it was because she was clever or good in something. No one referred to another student as “that Melayu, that Cina, that Kadazan or that Indian.”

We referred to Sabah as Malaysia. (I noticed after my return that people in the peninsula referred to Peninsular Malaysia as Malaysia and Sabah as Sabah.)

How can we not consider ourselves Malaysians when we spoke and studied in the national language?

Every Monday, we sang the Negaraku and the state anthem during school assemblies. Our school participated in the Malaysia Day celebration parade at the Town Padang on Sept 16.

My father’s Indian friends in Kota Kinabalu were Mr Nayar, Mr Menon, Mr Vanar, Mr Singh, Mr Gomez, and Mr Mendez, among others. I did not know at the time that there were Malayalees, Telugus, Ceylonese and Punjabis. To me everyone was Indian.

So it was somewhat of a “cultural shock” for me when I returned to Kuala Lumpur and found out that some Indians did not refer to themselves as Indians.

I also started hearing derogatory remarks made against other races, which was totally alien to me.

Over in Sabah, the Malays would join in celebrations without worrying if the food was halal or not, they didn’t even bother to ask. (I did not even know then what halal meant.) They trusted us non-Muslims not to serve them something they are forbidden to eat.

I probably grew up totally ignorant of the reality out there. But it was nice being ignorant.

Ignorant is bliss and would help in forging good race relations and unity in this country. Then we need not struggle so much to make the 1Malaysia concept a reality.

V.P. Sujata is a journalist with The Star

Sunday, September 12, 2010

salsa.

kota kinabalu needs to have some cuban flavoured salsa scene! i'm missing my dancing nights in kuala lumpur! losing my boogie woogie.

Hari Raya.

It's been quite a 4-day weekend here.

Had fun at Jill's friends' birthday bash where I danced my ass off and met a bunch of new friends.

On Raya day itself, a neighbours house was burnt down. First experience being one of the first on-scene so yeah, trying to call the firemen and running with buckets filled with water at the same time ain't easy. You can read in all in the papers.

Biggest news, I can fucking swim! Laugh, snort, whatever bitches. Thanks to my G and Timothy Ferriss for introducing Total Immersion :D

Friday, August 27, 2010

check her out.

http://shukreenma.blogspot.com

i feel her. i feel the religious / racial segregation the moment i stepped onto west malaysia.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

pre-marriage.

so like how would you feel if the one teaching / leading / consulting you about pre-marriage was someone who:
  1. married someone of a different 'religion'
  2. married his / her own cousin
  3. married someone he / she met online?
how are you supposed to react to what they tell you? do you just pretend like whatever they say is true and just hope and pray that the talk gets over quick? or do you tell it to their face? i'd keep mum about it.

saves face. saves time. saves energy. saves tears. saves relationships. saves everyone.

screw denominations.

why can't all of us just get along? we believe in the same god.

yet we curse each other saying that we're the truth and the rest are lies. what do you think they're telling their own? i bet the same sad statement.

sad.

i'm sure after big j left, none of this nonsense happened.

let's all just have a big group hug and say we believe in each other and we believe in Him.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

mirror, mirror on the wall.

you’re okay with other broken families. with drunkards. with too much smoking. and gambling. and debts. and brothers / cousins / nephews with their oh-so many mistresses. and children without mothers / fathers. with environmentally irresponsible fucktards.


you’re okay with illegal businesses. you’re okay with corrupt businessmen and politicians. you’re okay with gaining money the wrong way as long as you’re spending it with the church and family. (repeat) you’re okay with drinking as long as it’s done with family and friends.


you’re okay with your own brothers and sisters leading their own fucked up lives.


what you’re not okay with is me. just because i lead my life the way i want it to be, according to what i believe, you push me away. you want me to think and act like you. i cannot. i will not. i will never.


i haven’t even tried to sway off and be one of the usual suspects. yet you still doubt me.

family first.

you spend more time out-of-home than inside. and when you’re out, you’re not even spending it with your family. how do you expect people to look up to you?


family always comes first. you can’t leave your husband / wife and children and parents behind and go all out to people who are not even related to you. and you tell these people that family is important. if that’s not a perfect example of being a hypocrite then i don’t know what is.


i admit i don’t read much of the scriptures as much as i read novels but i know there’s a line somewhere in there that emphasizes on just making it right at home over anything else.


i don’t know how you live with yourself every single day. aren’t you ashamed? why do you still arrogantly speak like that, with your nose held up high? aren’t we all alike?


the two things that i hate the most, and i’m sure most of you agree, are over-the-top religious people and politicians. people kill people because of these scumbags. people hate. people lie. people die.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

faith.

"For the person most devoid of knowledge, just as for the most cultivated, faith remains a humble trusting in God." Brother Roger of Taize.

to imply from the quote, faith is about a personal relationship with the big one up there. not human beings to meddle in between.

brainwash.

oh, and stop brainwashing others! espesh my mom!

bullshit.

there’s nothing wrong with the religion, it’s the people in it. skewing others to think that this is wrong and this is right. funny how they somehow sound exactly like the others they fight against.


with this, i say bullshit.


what makes you think you’re much better than me? what’s with that ’holier-than-thou’ attitude? just because you went to a year course in a bible school doesn’t make you godly. doesn’t make whatever you speak out the truth.


i’m in this cause i believe that this is a religion of love. we spread the love of god to everyone not just by preaching but by loving one another, even though they may be of a different belief.


i walked out on the sermon last two weeks (go figure) cause it was inciting hate. hate towards those with different views. as i said earlier, with this, you’re not making yourself different or stand out from the rest instead you’re being one. of. THEM. i wouldn’t want that. i hate that. fact is, i love you. i love you to death but who am i to say all this to you? for all i know, you’d pull out the blasphemy card against me.


how can you help others when you can’t even help yourself. your family. do you really think people attend the mass on sundays cause they listen to what you have to say? seriously? well maybe a handful. we’re there cause it’s a family gathering of sorts. it is a family church, by the way. ask anyone sitting behind on what you’ve been blabbering for the past 2 hours and we’ll act dumb (well actually, we have no idea what you’ve been wasting your saliva on). and can’t you just get to the point when doing your sermons? stop ’uhm’s’ and ’ah’s’ and trying hard to let us finish your sentence. what the fuck are you trying to say?


okay, sounds like a rant towards a particular individual now. goes to all who can relate to this and hits them.


next post, religion and marriage and love.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

pictures tak jadi.

test subjects for a friend :)

DSC_4489-2 DSC_4492 DSC_4495 DSC_4502 DSC_4502-2 DSC_4504 DSC_4515 DSC_4520 DSC_4527 DSC_4531 DSC_4535 DSC_7017 DSC_7019 DSC_7020 copy  DSC_7057 DSC_7061 DSC_7068

Saturday, July 31, 2010

update from kl.

back in kl for meetings.

stayed for the first time in mandarin oriental for two (2) nights. yay!

anyways, i just got back from mtv world stage. bunkface, wondergirls and tokyo hotel performed. did not like them. at all. well maybe wondergirls (how can one not like hot korean girls?).

what blew the show out of the water was definitely katy perry! so worth the back and feet pain standing and waiting. she was hot, talented and so much more! (did i say she was hot?) started to listen to her when she was playing in clubs, especially with 'thinkin' of you' (which she played that nite). much love and respect to miss katy perry. if you're reading this miss perry, i love you!

seacrest out!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

back in kota mofo-ing kinabalu.

whaddup.

i got transferred. yaey?

back in kk now. work's okay i guess. but everything else is awesome here. the colleagues. the fiance. the family. although i do miss salsa and my salsa kaki's.

currently learning ballroom dancing and swimming (i know). gaining weight. need to start jogging and work out.

food here is great. lacking sleep. damn you world cup!

oh, my cubicle has an superb view of mount kinabalu.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

rumours.

stressed.

i might get transferred to kk for work. well, that's good news. there's so much things to do back there. which involves money. wedding. land purchase. house building.

Friday, March 05, 2010

concert update.

so like i just came back from babyface live in kuala lumpur. it was just awesome. babyface being one of my favourite singer / songwriters when i was growing up. listening to so much hard rock and yet still being sucked into these love songs.

highlights of concerts that rocked my socks off. erm, watched incubus live twice. koRn, muthafuckin, koRn. jason mraz.

list of must-attend concerts must be with bon jovi (glam rock ftw!), deftones, ratm and oasis. these are the bands that i moulded into during high school. oh, foo fighters at the side please :D

Thursday, March 04, 2010

welcome back baldie!

goodness me. haven't updated in ages.

you know, with all this facebook and twitter hype, who needs a blog?

so like, i'm based in kuala lumpur, malaysia now doing logistics for an oil and gas company.

got engaged to my girlfriend of almost 7 years on 13th february, 2010.

got me my own pad, my own car, my own ps3! :D

anyways, since wedding bells are just around the corner, i have asked for transfer back to my hometown in kota kinabalu, sabah and i just might get a place this coming april. praise the lord.

so i have travelled. to bali and such. going to china this may and taiwan next january, 2011.

i realize i need to be more creative with this site. maybe next time.

check me out on twitter guys. username's klagang.

until my next post, padapapapa!

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